客观的态度.Objective Attitude

当一个人对你那短短的一句评论大嚷，生气，
If someone feel angry and making noice due to one of your short comment that u dropped on her post,
而做出些激烈反驳时，
And made a vehement response from these,
你觉得大多是出自什么原因呢？
What is the cause reason do you think from her reaction?
因为我们真的误解了她所想表达的意思？
Because we really misunderstood the meaning of what she would like to express?
还是我们说中了她极想掩饰的心思？
Or we did said something that she wants to conceal in mind?
这点，只有对方的心里最清楚不过，
About the answer, only the author's mind will be know.
而不是靠那篇说辞。
We cannot just rely on rhetoric, the words from mouth to prove the truth.
有如Sedap即食面广告说辞：
As the script from mee product's Sedap advertisement:
“说话，嘴巴会骗人，但品尝食物，嘴巴是不会骗了的。”
"The words spoken from mouth can be deceiving, but the taste of food, the mouth will not be deceived."
其实，嘴巴不只会骗人，还会不知觉的去麻醉自己。
In fact, the mouth is not only used to deceptive, but used to hypnosis themselves too without notice.
无论如何，这并不是这篇文章说想要说的重点。
However, this is not the main point that I would like to present in this post,
事实到底是什么，其实跟我是毫无关联和影响的。
The truth is non of my business.
何必为此费心思呢？
Why do i need to bother on it?
重点是，虽说部落格，是用以记载各人的人情事物，
The main point is that although the blog is used to record each of the human things,
但，也是用以分享生活的一个平台，
But, it's also as a platform for the sharing of life,
它是属于公开化的，完全跟隐私扯不上任何一点关系，
It is kind of open, completely nothing to do with the privacy.
何一个地方，任何一个时候，任何一个人，
Any place, any time, any single person,
不管是熟悉，或完全属于陌生的，
Whether familiar or entirely unknown,
都可以随意进入你这小小的空间，
Have easy access to this small space,
以他的各人观点感觉，给以评论，
Each point of view is just based on their own feeling, different perception and interpretion,
身为博客，应以客观的态度去接受大家的评论，
As a blogger, should be based on objective attitude to accept everyone's comments,
如果觉得对方误解了，说错了，
If you think that the other misunderstood, wrong perceived on your message,
你可以选择回复作为解释，
You can choose to reply with your feedback,
或者选择忽视。
Or may to ignore.
而不是以口不择言的方式去伤害对方，
Not used your words from mouth to hurt others,
来释放自己的怒气。
just to release your anger.
如果非要如此的主观，
If you couldn't open your heart to receive the comment no matter in good or bad,
那建议你，请将自己的部落格设上密码，锁了它，将它完全的隐私化。
Then I suggest you, please set up your own blog with password, lock it, it would be complete privacy. people unable to access and leave any msg or comment without your permittion.
那样，就没有人可以误解你，或给于一些你不爱看到的评论了。
Therefore, no one will misunderstand you, or give in some comment that you do not prefer to read.
至于我，不会再踏入你的部落格一步，
For my side, I will not step into your blog anymore,
以确保自身安全。
In order to ensure my own security.